Welcome to Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilary — empowering support for parents of sensitive kids with big emotions.

Parenting is the hardest job we’ll ever do. And parenting a sensitive child who’s struggling can feel like an endless emotional marathon.

But what if raising your sensitive kid with big emotions could actually feel GOOD? Enter Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilarythe parenting podcast I wish I’d had as a first-time mama!

This podcast exists to support you as you parent your highly sensitive child — start at the beginning, or search below for the episode that’s most relevant for you right now!

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Why Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working for Your Sensitive Child

(& 3 Shifts to Help You Parent More Effectively!)

Gentle parenting is often imagined as staying calm, speaking softly, and always keeping our cool—but that version of it just doesn’t work for highly sensitive kids. In fact, if you’ve ever tried to white-knuckle your way through frustration, you know it doesn’t help.

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Rethinking Child Therapy: 5 Reasons Why It May Not Be the Best Approach for Sensitive Kids

Have you ever considered therapy for your sensitive child, hoping it might be the key to managing their meltdowns and learning to regulate their big emotions? If so, this episode offers 5 compelling reasons to reconsider this intervention — from a play therapist & parenting specialist.

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“You’re the Worst Mommy Ever!”: Navigating Children’s Mad Feelings

Anger is one of the trickiest emotions we deal with as parents. When our kids are angry – especially at us – it can be SO tough to stay calm and regulated and to respond in a way that feels good!

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Summer Rewind Series: Beyond Sleep Training or Co-Sleeping Forever: Finding the Baby Sleep Middle Ground with Rachael Shepherd-Ohta

Struggling with baby sleep? This Summer Rewind episode brings back a fan favorite with gentle, supportive tips from Hey, Sleepy Baby host Rachael Shepherd-Ohta to help you find more rest—without choosing between cry-it-out or co-sleeping forever.

Summer Rewind Series: Intuitive Eating for Kids: How to Help Picky Eaters & Heal Food Trauma with Bekah Groop

In this Summer Rewind episode, learn how to ease mealtime stress and raise intuitive eaters with peaceful parenting coach Bekah Groop. A must-listen for parents of picky eaters looking for a simpler, more joyful approach to feeding kids.

Summer Rewind Series: “How Do I Get My Partner On Board with Gentle Parenting?” with Bryana Kappadakunnel

Navigating parenting differences with your partner isn’t easy—and if you’ve ever felt like you’re just not on the same page, this Summer Rewind episode is for you. We’re revisiting a powerful conversation with licensed therapist Bryana Kappadakunnel all about handling parenting disagreements with compassion and connection. Whether you're deep in the thick of it or just wanting to feel more aligned as a parenting team, this episode offers fresh perspective, helpful strategies, and plenty of reassurance.

Summer Rewind Series: The Benefits of Unstructured Outdoor Play (& How to Get Your Child Outside!) with Allana Robinson

Fresh air, freedom, and fewer rules—unstructured outdoor play has incredible benefits for kids, especially highly sensitive ones. In this Summer Rewind episode, Dr. Hilary chats with Allana Robinson, Early Childhood Educator and Developmental Specialist, about why getting outside matters so much. From emotional regulation to developmental growth, they explore how to make outdoor time simple, safe, and truly meaningful—without needing to plan or structure every moment.

134. 5 Sneaky Ways You’re Still Trying to “Fix” Your Highly Sensitive Child’s Feelings (Without Even Realizing It!)

It’s easy to slip into “fix-it” mode when our kids are feeling big emotions—especially when those emotions feel overwhelming or inconvenient. But even with the best intentions, we might be sending messages that emotions aren’t safe or welcome. In this podcast episode, we’re exploring the subtle ways we try to fix our kids’ feelings (often without even realizing it), why that’s especially important to notice with highly sensitive children, and how we can begin to shift toward true emotional acceptance and connection.

Parenting Reflections: What It Looks Like in Real Life to Co-Regulate Through Big Emotions (Hint: It's Not Always Simple or Pretty, and You're Still Doing a Great Job!)

Ever been in one of those moments where your sensitive child is falling apart—and all you can do is sit in the mess with them? This podcast episode is for you. We’re digging into what it really looks like to co-regulate when your child is overwhelmed, throwing out words like “go away,” but deep down just needs you close. You’ll hear a raw moment from my own parenting this week and walk away with simple, grounded ways to support your child through their biggest emotions—without needing to fix or rush anything.

Stay connected:

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Raised Resilient: Help for Parents of Sensitive Kids with Big Emotions

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