Ready to go from Chaos to Connection in your family?

Ditch the exhaustion, resentment & frustration of parenting a sensitive child who’s struggling & step into the family life you’ve always wanted — without punishments, bribes, or yelling … and even if you’ve already tried it all.

If you’re parenting a highly sensitive child who’s struggling, chances are good that you’re struggling too:

  • suffering through intense daily meltdowns

  • constantly guarding against aggressive behaviors & unkind words

  • unable to get your child to understand the impact of their behavior

  • walking on eggshells to avoid your child’s huge reactions

  • losing your cool despite trying hard to hold it together

  • laying awake at night worried & feeling like you’re failing

If you’re like most parents I’ve helped, you’ve tried everything you can think of to help your child — books, podcasts, courses, punishments, rewards, lectures, ignoring behavior … maybe even therapy.

And I know you love your child fiercely … but unfortunately love isn’t enough to help your highly sensitive child go from seriously struggling to actually thriving.

You need a curated, research-backed system that shows you how to work with your highly sensitive child’s nature instead of against it.

Parenting a sensitive kid with big emotions requires an out-of-the-box system … and I created that system for you.

Here’s how it works:

We partner closely together over the course of 8 weeks to end the constant meltdowns & build the skills your sensitive child is currently missing — so you can stop walking on eggshells and actually feel good about parenting your sensitive child.

Here’s how we do this:

First, we get clear on your child’s emotional needs.The meltdowns & behavioral struggles are just your child’s way of trying to get their emotional needs met in the best way they know how. We help you get clear on your child’s needs so that you can meet them consistently & proactively, and your child no longer needs to act out. And this one step alone reduces meltdowns, usually within the first few weeks.

Then, we empower you to use playful interactions to teach your child the skills they’re currently missing. A big part of why sensitive kids struggle so much is that they have all the intense emotions and none of the skills to handle them appropriately. We show you what skills to teach and how to do that so that your child actually learns them (& can use them when it counts!).

Next, we make sure YOUR needs are met. We help you learn to fill your own cup so you’re not parenting from a place of martyrdom & feel your OWN feelings so you can truly help your child feel theirs.

We also take a look at how YOU were parented so that we can help you identify the unconscious ideas and beliefs that are getting in the way of you showing up to parenting in a way that feels good (because we all know that constantly losing it & relying on punishments and rewards to get your kid to listen doesn’t feel good).

Finally, we help you build a solid foundation of communication with your sensitive child so that you can give them feedback when it counts, and you trust that they feel safe coming to you with literally anything.

So when all is said & done, you’re no longer spending your days putting out emotional fires. Instead, you’ll build a peaceful, connected family dynamic & you’ll know your sensitive child has the skills to handle any emotion that comes their way, now and down the road.

Is this program right for your family?

“I can’t remember the last time he had a true meltdown. Parenting actually feels enjoyable, and I didn’t think that was possible.”

— Hannah A., program graduate

Program deliverables:

You’ll watch 8 weeks of pre-recorded content, one module per week. (You’ll have access to this material — and any future updates I make to it — “forever” (or as long as I maintain this program). This is everything you need to know and do in order to end the meltdowns and reclaim real peace in your home.

But because you’ll inevitably have questions about how to apply this material in your home with your unique child, you’ll also have unlimited support as you work through the program & make changes. Here’s what that support looks like:

  • 3 1-1 coaching calls — one to onboard you into the program & help you get big wins right away, one to check in and keep momentum halfway through the program at 4 weeks, and one to celebrate how far you’ve come and talk about next steps as the program wraps up at 8 weeks.

  • Weekly group coaching calls led by Dr. Hilary with other parents who really get what you’re going through (& may ask questions you had too but didn’t think to ask!)

  • Unlimited Voxer access to Dr. Hilary where you can literally push a button and ask your questions any time of day, and Dr. Hilary will repsond as soon as she can — but by the next business day at the latest. This is the closest thing we could think of to the “bat phone” — it’s having Dr. Hilary in your pocket 24/7, so you’ll never be alone in this process.

If you show up, play full out, and do the work (even when it’s hard!), there’s no way you don’t get where you want to go during this program. Let’s end the meltdowns, together!

 Love from program graduates

“We have more hope for our family & all the tools we need to build a beautiful, connected family dynamic.”

“Chaos to Connection and Dr. Hilary’s support took us from feeling like our experience of parenting was comparable to being on a terrible, free fall, “drop tower” ride to feeling like we’re now on the more typical rollercoaster ride of parenting - we have ups (yay!) and are better able to manage the downs. We have more hope for our family and all the tools we need to build a beautiful, connected family dynamic where everyone thrives.”

— Hannah A.

“I saw a spark in my child that I hadn’t seen in years.”

“When my second child was born, my oldest (definitely a highly sensitive child) really struggled. We were dealing with massive meltdowns, huge outbursts, and aggressive behaviors, especially toward the baby. Even just a few weeks into the program, I saw some real changes. I saw a spark in my child that I hadn’t seen in years. Now our home feels more peaceful. We know what we’re doing and how to get back on track when things get challenging, and that’s a huge relief. I’m so glad we did this program!”

— Natasha G.

“We actually went from Chaos to Connection!”

“Our entire family was dysregulated when we started this program. Both of our kids are highly sensitive, and we were really struggling to parent them. Dr. Hilary’s program gave us the tools & confidence we needed to change our parenting. It’s been a total game changer. We actually went from Chaos to Connection!”

— C. S.