Welcome to Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilary — empowering support for parents of highly sensitive kids!

Parenting is the hardest job we’ll ever do. And parenting a highly sensitive child who’s struggling can feel like an endless emotional marathon.

But what if raising your highly sensitive child could actually feel GOOD? Enter Raised Resilient with Dr. Hilarythe parenting podcast I wish I’d had as a first-time mama!

This podcast exists to support you as you parent your highly sensitive child — start at the beginning, or search below for the episode that’s most relevant for you right now!

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“You’re the Worst Mommy Ever!”: Navigating Children’s Mad Feelings

Anger is one of the trickiest emotions we deal with as parents. When our kids are angry – especially *at* us – it can be SO tough to stay calm and regulated and to respond in a way that feels good!

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76. Practical Tips to Make Time for Exercise as a Busy Parent with Lauren Chante

As busy parents, we’re all trying to fit in self-care around the 24/7 job of caring for our kids. It’s not easy, and sometimes it can even feel impossible to make time for things like exercise when you’re raising little kids. Dr. Hilary talks with Lauren Chante about how you can ensure that you move your body each day, even if you feel like you have zero time and no childcare.

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75. How to Know if Your Child is Kindergarten Ready (& Why “Kindergarten Readiness” is Probably Not What You Think It Is!)

Kindergarten readiness has become a whole thing. There are flash cards, online programs, and books all designed to ensure that your child is ready for kindergarten (and the messaging is that you should get started pretty much as soon as your kid can walk). It’s enough to make your head spin! Dr. Hilary tells you why you actually don’t need books, programs, or flash cards.

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74. 4 Reasons You Should Let Your Child be Bored (& How to Deal with Boredom)

Most parents dread the inevitable “I’m bored” from our kids. Those words can conjure up feelings of guilt for us as parents, and we might feel compelled to jump in and suggest a list of activities or organize a craft or put on a movie. Dr. Hilary shares four reasons why you should resist the urge to jump in and instead just let your child be bored.

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72. Traveling with Kids: 5 Tips to Make Your Next Family Trip Less Stressful

Traveling with kids can be amazing … but it can also be stressful. Long car rides, plane trips with strangers, schedule changes, busy days, and later bedtimes can spell challenges, especially with toddlers and preschoolers. Dr. Hilary shares five tips to make your next family trip feel less stressful and flow more smoothly.

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69. How to Get Your Child to Talk to You (Even About the Hard Stuff!)

We all want our kids to come to us when they're struggling. But how do we get our kids to actually open up and tell us what's going on in their lives? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary shares 5 tips to help you learn to really listen so that your child will talk to you about anything (even the hard stuff!).

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68. What to Do When You Don't Like Your Child's Friend

In this week’s episode, I answer a listener struggling with how to best support her 7-year-old daughter, who has a friend who’s kind one day and mean the next. I dive into how we can best support our kids through difficult friendship dynamics – and I share the one thing we should NOT do if we want our kids to keep talking to us about their friendships.

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67. How to Find Balance in Parenting, Life & Hormones with Dr. Brooke Kalanick

Parenting requires a LOT of us, and to do it in a way that we feel good about, we have to prioritize our wellness. But how do we do this in the midst of the chaos of raising kids? In this podcast episode, Dr. Hilary talks with Dr. Brooke Kalanick -- naturopathic medicine doctor and women's hormone expert -- about finding balance in parenting, life, and our hormones.

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65. The #1 Negative Thought Pattern that Keeps Parents Feeling Stuck & Disconnected

In this week’s episode, I share the #1 negative thought pattern that I’ve seen in my work with parents. This negative thought pattern keeps parents stuck in blame and shame, makes us feel disconnected from our child, and renders it nearly impossible to parent effectively. Sounds pretty undesirable, right? Well, don’t stress – in this episode, I teach you how to identify when you’re in this negative thought spiral and how to pull yourself out of it!

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64. 4 Practical Ways to Manage Parenting Stress with Elizabeth Andreyevskiy

In this week’s episode, I talk with Elizabeth Andreyevski, a stress coach who helps overwhelmed parents reduce their mental stress so they can respond to their kids with patience & calm. We talk about why parenting feels so stressful, and Elizabeth shares 4 proactive ways to feel less stressed & prioritize our own needs without guilt.

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